Something Tiny Blew My Mind

About three weeks or so ago – since my last blog post really I suppose – my brain decided to turn off for a bit.

I couldn’t concentrate, think straight, or even start a sentence. My memory, poor as it is, stopped being any real use to me too.

I’m not kidding.

At the same time, I was constantly tired and didn’t need any excuse to close my eyes for a nap. In fact, I was getting up in the morning, doing the school run with my wife and then that was it. I needed to go back to sleep.

Yes, I was a bit worried about it, but not to the point where I felt I had to see a doctor…

But it turns out it must have been a virus. Eventually it broke into a sore throat, sniffles and a headache. About the same time my mind started to clear up.

Also, my wife now has the same symptoms, which makes me feel better in a perverse sort of way as I know that my problem wasn’t something more serious.

And because we were both in the same frame of mind for a while, some conversations have been a little strange.

The following joke is a good example of what it’s been like in our house.

There’s an old couple at breakfast time, and the lady says “I’d like something a bit special for breakfast this morning.”

“Oh yes dear, what’s that then?”

“I’d like some ambrosia rice pudding please. I know there’s a tin in the cupboard, I saw it there yesterday.”

“Okay, I’ll do that then.”

“I haven’t finished yet. Write this down, you know you’ll only forget it.”

“No, I’m okay, I won’t forget. What else do you want?”

“I also want some whipped cream on top.”

“Okay. Ambrosia rice pudding with whipped cream on top.”

“Write it down, I know you’ll forget what I’ve said.”

“No dear, it’s okay, I won’t forget. Is that all?”

“I bought some strawberries yesterday. I’d like two strawberries on top please.”

“Right! Ambrosia rice pudding with whipped cream on, and two strawberries to top it off. Is that it?”

“Yes. But please write it down, you know you’ll only get it all wrong.”

“No, no, dear. I’ll remember it perfectly well. Rice pudding, whipped cream, two strawberries.”

“Ooh, okay then, if you’re sure.”

So off the old gent goes into the kitchen, and for the next twenty minutes comes the sound of banging and clattering, cupboards opening and closing and so on.

He finally returns with a plate, and on that plate are two rashers of bacon, two fried eggs, and a sausage.

His wife looks at it incredulously, one eyebrow raised, and with a look of total exasperation on her face. Finally she says “See! I knew you’d forget if you didn’t write it down!”

“Wha… wha… what’s the matter dear? What have I done wrong?”

She looks at him and says…

“You’ve forgotten the toast!”

-Frank Haywood

Posted by Frank Haywood


Ernie Hodge


I’m glad to hear you’re doing better.

Don’t you just hate it when someone forgets the toast. 😉

Have a great day,

Ernie Hodge

Gareth Hogan

Wondered where you were. Sorry to hear you were both under the weather.
Start growing you own veg! Everybody is doing it, free exercise, fresh air and wholesome food at the end of it!
Look after yourself mate, we missed your posts.

best wishes

Hi Frank,

We wondered what had happened. Glad to hear you are now recovered.

You were missed at the Vendiva/IPK forum.



Clive Praed

Hi Frank, I know people just like that.

Me, for one.

You need my Healthy Eating Guide. LOL

Check the website above.

Warm regards,


Frank Haywood

Hey, thanks for that everybody.

I tell you what guys, it was a real weird feeling. I just couldn’t make connections easily and it was a struggle to do anything other than mundane things.

Now my brain’s back online again, it’s made me wonder if people live like that the whole time. We’ve all met people who struggle a bit and get cruel labels like bimbo, airhead, thicko and so on. But we know it’s not really their fault is it? Maybe they’ve always struggled to make connections.

Now I’ve never considered myself of above average intelligence, but I swear while I was in this brain fog I started watching more TV, looking at YouTube, and even took an interest in the news.

You might know I consider all those things as time wasters. 😉

They are essentially idle entertainment designed to take your mind off real life – you know the stuff that you do when you’re not “vegging out” doing any of the above, hehe.

Suddenly, while I was unable to think any more, I took a greater interest in those other things.

That I find a bit scary and is something I need to have a good think about…


The toast you say…? Just a minute….while I lift my glass.

“The Queen, God bless her…!”